of the increased sense of closeness. Plus the content of most any fantasy can really get your sexual motor going big time. Jeffre’s ebook, Intimacy, A Green Light for Red Hot Sex and A Lifetime of Loving, has many useful exercises to enhance intimacy and arousal, as well as sharing fantasies. You can see more details and get your copy at… <http://www.tantraattahoe.com/int.htm>.   PRACTICE: Intimacy Communication   Purpose Through opening up your sexual communication, this practice will increase your intimacy and give you useful information that you can use throughout this chapter and the rest of this ebook.   Description Women tend to enjoy 30 to 60 minutes of loveplay, while men may request and desire less. Only you know how your body responds and what feels best. Thispracticeasks you to discuss, as specifically as possible, the types of loveplay you like and the amount of time you like it. Go over the following questions separately and then share your answers. Let the dialogue flow where it will until you feel heard and understand and you know more about what your beloved prefers. Bytheway, this is a starting place. As you become more practiced in these ways, you may want three to six hours of Tantric LovePlay. Who knows how far you’ll go?   1. COMFORT Do I give (or receive) most comfortably?   2. PRACTICE I would like to practice receiving (or giving) more…   3. HONESTY Sometimes I’m not honest with you about what I really want. Yes No Here’s an example…   4. TIME The amount of time I usually like to spend in loveplay is….   5. KINDS The kinds of loveplay I like best include… (touching, massage, kissing, talking, fellatio, cunnilingus, etc.)   4.3 Choose The Mood You Want Section   “You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.” —– Plato   Create Your Sacred Space Want to increase the depth of your total experience? Arranging the setting, consciously invoking the kind of energy you want, and discussing your feelings in the moment are essential.